What if dating could be about getting what YOU want? Easily? Enjoyably?
What if you could actually say, "I'm having a GREAT TIME with online dating?"
Pleasure Based Datings starts with centering your own experience and prioritizing what feels good to you.
Luxuriously.
Deliberately.
Repeatedly.
Including generously feeding yourself - daily! - with every kind of pleasure: touch, laughter, breeze, dancing, slowing down, savoring -- whatever this is, for you. Noticing what is magic and awesome and delicious. And letting it in. And then asking for more, and receiving that, too.
Then, from this place of deep resource: basing every choice on this simple question:
💥 Does this increase or decrease my pleasure? 💥
Does swiping right, or left ,on this one increase or decrease my pleasure?
Does being in dynamic with this person increase or decrease pleasure?
Can asking a bold question about something I really care about lead me to knowing if I am actually aligned with this person, which would lead to more pleasure?
Noticing how saying NO starts to increase pleasure and turning away from things not meant for me ultimately leads to a more aligned and pleasued life!
The pleasure in saying YES! Hell yes. OMFG YES!
How can I start to get crystal clear on what I am looking for and respecting my time and theirs by not dating unconsciously?
How can I recognize there is a true connection, even if they aren't the "person I envisioned", yet still lean in?
Does this choice increase, or decrease, my pleasure?
Letting go of outcome, because each moment brings so much yum. The Yes, and the No. The rush of a beginning, and the pleasure of a clean, powerful ending. The anticipation of not knowing yet.
In this workshop, we give you playful practices and simple steps to help you ground your pleasure practice, call in all that you desire, and then sort through the offerings that start pouring in, from a place of discernment, power, and pure delight.
You will learn how to:
Call in exactly the kind of attention and connection you desire
Turn away everything that doesn't work for you
Get clear on your non-negotiables and powerfully hold your boundaries
Create a clear, concise profile that will magetically attract what you want (and easily repel what you don't want)
Ensure that you are met every step of the way with the respect, reverence, and devotion that you so clearly deserve (because this is what you are giving to yourself)
This class is open to everyone who has ever identified as a People Pleaser, who would now prefer to be a Free Human, a Jedi-Level Connector, and powerful beyond measure in your own life.
Monogamy, Poly, and ENM friendly.
Led by Anne More and Candice Leigh
About Anne:
What if sex is the pathway to deepest self-discovery and spiritual awakening? What if pleasure is our greatest renewable resource, and sex is good for you? Somatic Sexologist Anne More has helped hundreds of individuals and couples to open up to joy and play, and to use pleasure and erotic expansion as medicine to resolve scars and trauma.
As Erotic Blueprints Master Trainer, Devotional Kink Coach, and creator of the Jedi Goddess Dating system, she especially delights in guiding singles through the dating minefield to find deep relationship, and helping long term couples to fall in love all over again and create great sex for a lifetime.
www.yesannemore.com
About Candice:
Candice Leigh is a sex and intimacy coach, somatic sex educator, tantrika, Sexological Bodyworker, Erotic Blueprint coach, Somatic Experiencing practitioner and writer in NYC. She uses experiential and somatically trauma informed modalities bridging yoga, neo-tantra, sexuality coaching, breathwork, talk therapy techniques, encouraging clients to courageously embrace their vulnerability, body, mind, heart, soul and of course, eros. She primarily works one-on-one with individuals and couples seeking to deepen their connection to their bodies, hearts and sexual energy through the somatic experience of pleasure and presence, shifting shame and trauma into embodied sacredness, finding empowered self love and a deeper, more fulfilling intimate life within themselves and their relationships.
Aside from working privately with individuals and couples, she teaches breathwork, intimacy and connection workshops in New York City.
candiceleighcoaching.com